Recently, Jennifer Lopez’s Instagram posts have sparked speculation about her marriage to actor Ben Affleck. Lopez, popularly known as J.Lo, shared portions from her 2021 song “Cambia El Paso,” causing fans to suspect she’s insinuating relationship difficulties. The song, translated as “Change the Step,” centers on themes of moving forward and personal development, which many believe is pertinent to her current situation.
Lyrics such as, “He doesn’t deserve to have her in his arms” and “Her life is better now without him,” have ignited discussions about Lopez’s marriage with Affleck. Fans and media outlets are suggesting that these posts might be more than just a commemoration of the song’s release anniversary.
The Instagram posts by Lopez come amidst ongoing rumors about her marital issues with Affleck. The couple, who got married in 2022, have been the center of media focus for several months. They have been living separately, with Affleck relocating his belongings from their joint Beverly Hills, California home and Lopez spending the Fourth of July weekend separately from Affleck.
In a 2021 interview on SiriusXM’s Pitbull’s Globalization show, Lopez stated that “Cambia El Paso” is about embracing changes. “The song is about change and not being afraid to take the step,” she said. “Like, just take the step, advance, do what you need to do. If something’s not feeling right, whatever it is in your life, just make that move and dance. Dance is life and joy and happiness.”
Recent reports suggest that Lopez and Affleck have been spending more time apart, instigating rumors of a potential split. A source close to the couple stated that Affleck has moved out of their shared Beverly Hills home and rented a different one, while Lopez continues to reside in their mansion, which has been listed for sale.
Independent Fourth of July celebrations by both Lopez and Affleck added fuel to the speculation. Lopez celebrated in the Hamptons, New York with her twins, Emme and Max, fathered by her ex-husband Marc Anthony. Meanwhile, Affleck was spotted in Los Angeles, California with his children from his previous marriage to Jennifer Garner. Both Lopez and Affleck were seen wearing their wedding rings during the holiday weekend, leaving fans unsure about the status of their relationship.
Adding to the ongoing intrigue, it’s reported that Lopez’s family has shown concern about her relationship with Affleck. Sources indicate that Lopez’s mother and sisters have advised her to move on. A source quoted Jennifer’s mom advising her, “Cut your losses and move on to avoid getting any deeper in this mess.'” She added, “He was not the person she built him up to be. It’s taken too much of a toll on her, and because of this, she has lost sight of who she is and what she stands for.”
The song “Cambia El Paso” was released following Lopez’s high-profile split from former MLB player Alex Rodriguez in 2021. At that time, the song was perceived as an anthem for empowerment and moving on, a sentiment that seems relevant to her present circumstances.
Lopez has not directly addressed the rumors about her marriage, however, her social media activity keeps fans intrigued. The timing of her posts and the lyrics of the song have led many to speculate if she’s signaling about her relationship with Affleck.
Affleck, who is fluent in Spanish from his time filming a TV show in Mexico, would certainly comprehend the deeper meaning of the song’s lyrics. This fact has fueled further speculation that the posts might be a veiled way of expressing her feelings about their relationship.
Fans and media outlets continue to scrutinize the couple’s social media accounts for hints or updates about their relationship. The couple’s journey, since their reignited romance and eventual marriage, has been closely watched, and any developments will likely draw significant attention from their followers.