Jennifer Lopez, the multi-talented entertainer known for her chart-topping hits and blockbuster movies, has opened up about her newfound independence following her recent divorce from actor Ben Affleck. 

In a candid interview with Nikki Glaser for Interview magazine, Lopez shared her thoughts on embracing being single, and the journey of self-discovery that has accompanied this significant life change.

The 55-year-old singer and actress expressed excitement about being on her own, stating, “Everything that I’ve done over the past 25, 30 years, being in these different challenging situations, what can I f–king do when it’s just me flying on my own … what if I’m just free?” This sentiment reflects a shift in Lopez’s perspective on relationships and personal fulfillment.

Lopez acknowledged that the transition to single life hasn’t been without its challenges. She described the experience as “lonely, unfamiliar, scary,” and at times even “sad” and “desperate.” However, the “Let’s Get Loud” singer emphasized that these feelings have not deterred her from embracing her independence.

One of the most significant revelations from Lopez’s interview was her realization that being in a relationship does not define her worth or happiness. “When you sit in those feelings and go, ‘These things are not going to kill me,’ it’s like, ‘Actually, I am capable of joy and happiness all by myself,'” she explained. This newfound self-awareness has led Lopez to focus on finding happiness within herself rather than seeking it from external sources.

The Grammy nominee’s journey to self-love has been a process of introspection and growth. Lopez admitted that in the past, she had settled for relationships where she received less care and attention than she deserved. Now, armed with a stronger sense of self-worth, she recognizes that she is enough on her own and doesn’t need to accept subpar treatment from partners.

Despite her reputation as a hopeless romantic, Lopez has made it clear that she is not actively seeking a new relationship. “I’m not looking for anybody,” she stated firmly.  This declaration marks a significant shift for the singer, who has been married four times and engaged six times throughout her life.

Lopez’s focus on personal growth extends beyond her romantic life. She recently starred in the film “Unstoppable,” which received a standing ovation at the Toronto International Film Festival. The movie tells the inspirational story of a wrestler who overcomes physical adversity, a theme that resonates with Lopez’s own journey of perseverance.

While navigating her new single status, Lopez has also been mindful of her public image and the scrutiny that comes with it. She acknowledged that her split from Affleck has been a hot topic in the media but maintains that she doesn’t take social media and public commentary too seriously. “I know who I am as a person,” Lopez affirmed, demonstrating her resilience in the face of public scrutiny.

The singer’s journey of self-discovery has included moments of reflection on her past relationships. In a moment of self-deprecating humor, Lopez referred to her past romantic self as a “dumb bitch” for believing that she needed a partner to be whole and happy.

Despite the end of their marriage, Lopez and Affleck remain committed to co-parenting their blended family. Sources close to the couple have reported that they are focused on maintaining an amicable relationship for the sake of their children.

As Lopez continues to navigate this new chapter in her life, she remains focused on her career and personal growth. Her recent experiences have inspired her to create art that reflects her journey, including her new musical short film “This Is Me… Now: A Love Story,” which premiered on Amazon Prime. The film explores themes of self-discovery and the importance of self-love, mirroring Lopez’s real-life experiences.