Jennifer Lopez made a definitive statement about her future romantic plans during her European tour, telling fans she believes she is finished with marriage after four previous attempts at matrimony.
The declaration came during Lopez’s Up All Night tour in Europe on July 17, 2025, when she responded to a fan holding a sign reading “J. Lo Marry Me.” Lopez told the audience, “I think I’m done with that,” before adding that she had “tried that a few times, anyway.”
The 55-year-old entertainer finalized her divorce from Ben Affleck in January 2025, ending their two-year marriage. Lopez had filed for divorce on August 20, 2024, which marked the second anniversary of their lavish wedding ceremony in Georgia. The timing appeared deliberate, as she filed without legal representation.
Lopez has been married four times throughout her career. She wed actor Ojani Noa in 1997, choreographer Cris Judd in 2001, and singer Marc Anthony in 2004, with whom she shares 17-year-old twins Max and Emme. She was also engaged to baseball player Alex Rodriguez in 2017, though they never married.
The divorce settlement between Lopez and Affleck was reportedly amicable, with both parties keeping what they earned individually during their marriage. They reached an agreement on splitting their $61 million Beverly Hills mansion, though the specific terms remain confidential. The house is currently on the market. Neither party will pay spousal support, and Lopez agreed to drop Affleck as her last name.
Throughout 2024, the couple faced mounting speculation about their relationship troubles. Reports emerged in May that Affleck had moved out of their shared Beverly Hills mansion, with sources indicating they had been separated since March but attempted to maintain a united front while Lopez promoted her album and documentary projects.
During their separation period, communication between the former couple reportedly broke down completely. By August 2024, sources indicated that Affleck and Lopez were no longer speaking in person or by phone, which complicated divorce negotiations. Initially, both had been handling the proceedings through their respective business managers rather than attorneys.
The relationship challenges were documented in Lopez’s Prime documentary “The Greatest Love Story Never Told,” which premiered in February 2025. The film revealed tensions between their different approaches to publicity, with Affleck expressing discomfort about Lopez’s tendency to share personal details publicly, including love letters he had written to her.
Following the divorce, Lopez described feeling liberated and ready to embrace her independence. In May 2025, she indicated that everything in her life felt “really healthy and good” and that she was prepared to make people “sing and dance and have a good time.” She characterized the period as perfect for celebrating being “free and happy.”
Lopez has maintained her focus on her career and family since the split. She hosted the 2025 American Music Awards in May, delivering a seven-minute performance that included choreographed moments with backup dancers. She also announced a residency at The Colosseum at Caesars Palace scheduled for late December 2025 through early January 2026 and much of March 2026.
The entertainer has emphasized her commitment to her children during this transition period. She told Spanish newspaper El País that she navigated her children through difficult times and that they emerged “stronger and better because of it.” Lopez expressed pride in helping her twins handle the family changes.
Lopez’s current tour represents her first in six years, with scheduled performances including a headline appearance at WorldPride in Washington, D.C., during Pride Month. She indicated that her children would likely attend some of her concert performances this summer.
The singer’s marriage to Affleck represented a second chance at romance for the pair, who had previously dated and been engaged in the early 2000s. Their reunion in 2021 was widely covered in the media, with Lopez creating an entire album and documentary project centered on their rekindled relationship.
